Life

Right To Be Anything In Life

Regardless of past or what have done or whatever medications have been on people have the right to be whatever they want to be. Wow it is that simple THE right TO be.  Then the right to be indicates the right to be a psychiatrist doctor, a psychologist doctor, a teacher, a wife, a mother, and so on.  Yes, that is definitely correct regardless how much you are shocked. When I was in college one of my psychology instructors had us watch several videos on documentaries given by Ph.D  psychiatrist and psychologist that at one point in their life BEFORE getting their degree had been in a mental hospital and/or on psychiatric medications. Half of the classroom was shocked but it is true. We often hear the saying that  “the past does not indicate the future”.  Yet we seldom see that in action and or think about that. After watching the documentaries our shock about the truth was our topic of discussion.  So, you are probably thinking hum tell me more about the past and the persons present state of being.

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You have a doctor appointment and the nurse say’s Dr. Blah is ready to see you for your psychiatric appointment. You go in then find out Dr. Blah was once in a mental hospital and on psychiatric medications.  You think WHAT  but I just saw this person and they were my doctor how can that be true.  Then you start to get angry and tell just about everyone you know that your doctor that your psychiatrist was once in a mental hospital and on psychiatric drugs.  Let me just say that DESPITE the information being true you are committing SLANDER. Oh yes trust me and ask a lawyer, you can say “but it’s true” or you can say “it was an accident” and do you know what the law will say “SLANDER”. My mentors the first thing they did was make sure I took an Intro To Law class when I was going to get into investigative journalism and research. My mentors wanted me and my big mouth to know what was legal and what not legal what to say and do within the confines of the law. I love my mentors from various parts of the world. Ok, so let’s continue. You meet a very important man’s  wife and think wow she is lovely such a nice person.  Then you find out that she was in jail oh yes lord this female was a jail birdie and now she is married to this very important man.  You think WHAT but I have never been a jail birdie and I have no good husband.  The company that you absolutely love doing business with let’s say Apple Computers just for the sake of a company name.  You are invited to attend the CEO reception and you start to talk to the company CEO that runs the company and think wow awesome intelligent man.  Then you find out that he was on drugs at one time and not just marijuana drugs but he also did cocaine and speed.  You hear that a popular TV show of women is doing great in the ratings. Then you are told that one of the host was on heroine and now making a million dollars a year. You think WHAT but I can’t even get a good job and I have a degree and I have all these contacts and I have never been on drugs. 

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I love the analyze stuff so here we go again.  Let’s analyze WHY some people get so upset because someone is in their present state of being DESPITE their past.  If I was the analyze this situation this is what I would say.  WHAT is the common denominator in all these WHAT open mouth unable to speak moments?  One word JEALOUSY.  You see you are not angry that the person has moved on from whatever obstacle. You are not upset that the person is in a good job or got a good husband.  You are not upset because you are here and the person is there.  You are just plain everyday JEALOUS.  Yes, jealous because that person was able to fall down and dust self off and probably say ouch that really hurt and move on while you fell down and probably dusted self off however repeated the word ouch without realizing it only had to be said once for the SAME incident. You said ouch and then you said ouch to the neighbor and then you said ouch to the uber/ lyft driver again ALL for the same incident.  You are just one big ouch word repeater speaking person for the same incident that never got past the ouch and on with life …….  And that my dear is WHY the anger.

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In conclusion we all have the right to be.  We all have the right to get on with life.  Just about every human being has made a mistake regardless if it is a big mistake or a small mistake.  Just about every human being has a SECRET in their closet.  However, in life in this awesome country the United States of America people (that is plural) have a Freedom of Choice and the Right To Be.  How fortunate we are to live in an awesome country that allows each individual to be as they want to be.  It is just IF want to get up after falling, dust self off and say OUCH then continue with life. Or  IF  want to get up after falling, dust self off and say ouch then say ouch again for the same incident till sound like a tape recorder. Believe it or not, in our Freedom of Choice country you too have the right to be an ouch word repeater for the same incident and jealous. However, is that the type of life you want for yourself in this awesome Freedom of Choice country.

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